All in Long Term Relationships
Host of the millennial dating podcast We Met At Acme, Lindsey Metselaar, joins B+L to talk about how to navigate wedding season, including when to give a plus one, going to wedding as a plus one with your S/O, and what happens when your boyfriend doesn’t want to come as your plus one. We also dive into if it’s ever okay for your boyfriend to follow instagram models, how many is too many, and if there is a situation where you should really bring it up.
Lindsey Metselaar Instagram: @lindzmetz
We Met at Acme Instagram: @wemetatacme
We’re in peak summer time which means lots of opportunity to take a trip with your bae. This week we break down L’s recent trip with R to Italy and answer questions like when’s the best time to take your first Baecation, trial’ing a big trip with a weekender before, and what to do when you get annoyed with your bae. We also answer a listener a email about what to do when you’ve been dating someone for a few years in your twenties but start to lose interest.
In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.
On this week’s episode B+L sit down to dive deeper as L hits the six month dating stage with her current boyfriend R. They discuss weeknight sleepover issues when morning schedules don’t perfectly align
Our first recurring guest, Anonymous S from Episode 7: So You Think Your Junk Is Brilliant is back to give us a life update. We last left her in a steady long term relationship until recently when her long term partner ended things. We talk about how to process a breakup when you don’t get closure, entering the dating world at 27, and building trust with a next person you date.
On this week’s episode B+L go full Harry Potter with Mike Schubert (@Schubes17) from the Potterless Podcast, where Mike as a 20-something millennial reads Harry Potter for the first time. We discuss our favorite Harry Potter pairings (and least favorite), wizard condoms, the ethics of love potions, and if Snape or Lupin more of a hipster. Potterless Podcast is available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, follow Mike’s journey on Potterless on Twitter (@PotterlessPod) and Instagram (PotterlessPodcast).
This week B+L host two new guests (and current listeners!) on the podcast. New York based R— 24 and single— and J— 25 and in a committed relationship— come on to the pod and answer all of our burning questions about what the hell is going on in the straight male mind. We chat about cheating, what it means to sleep with someone on a first date, splitting the bill and following ex’s on social media… with arguably too much laughter in between.
On this episode B+L go through the ghosts of their past, inspired by Ariana’s new song ‘Thank U Next’. They also revisit cuffing season and give a update on their progress (or lack there of)
B+L kick off Season Two and take on cuffing season head-on. They break down what is cuffing season, the best way to find yourself a bae that will stick around in these cold winter months, and offer up some first date advice during these trying times.
B’s younger brother N joins her on this special episode where they talk about some surprising facts about college dating, virginity, and frat parties and share some personal stories along the way.
In this week's episode B interviews anonymous guest E where they talk about Toxic relationships, warning signs if your bae is a little cray, and the healing process if you find yourself recently out of toxic relationship.
In this week’s episode B is in London interviewing two special guests A+E on all things love and marriage. A+E talk about getting married in your 20s, dealing with other people hitting on your married bae, and advice for those young couples equally in love and ready to tie the knot
This week as part of our travel series, B is in London and interviews special British guest S. We talk about Feminism in current culture today as a woman, bad dates, good guys and the challenges between it all.
This week B+L talk about the current problems that they are going through in their dating lives. They also have their first caller in and talk about communication when you just start dating someone new and what is TMI and what is isn't enough.
B+L tackle the big issues: ending your Long Term Relationship, offering some sage advice for naviagting your shared friends after a breakup, how to survive your family (and theirs) and is it ever truly possible to be friends with an ex?