All in Rejection

Episode 38: Dating with Tom and Tucker of The Undesirables

In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.

Episode 32: So Your Long Term Partner Left

Our first recurring guest, Anonymous S from Episode 7: So You Think Your Junk Is Brilliant is back to give us a life update. We last left her in a steady long term relationship until recently when her long term partner ended things. We talk about how to process a breakup when you don’t get closure, entering the dating world at 27, and building trust with a next person you date.

Episode 31: Valentine's Day Dating

B+L are separated by an ocean but that doesn’t stop them from breaking down Valentine’s Day do and don’ts for those in a serious relationship to those in maybe want to get more serious. They also answer two listener questions and give some sage advice on dating older and what happens when you have emotional compatibility without sexual compatibility.

Episode 29: When and How To DTR a New Relationship

Are you recently seeing someone and found yourself going on less first dates and more second, third and fourth dates? In this episode L discusses her latest bae and her and B give some advice on when to have the exclusive conversation, when to have the boyfriend/girlfriend conversation and why a lot of online dating romances end after the third/fourth date mark. We discuss a recent reddit thread on the subject and discuss what made our last online dating romances end and of course how to explore new bedroom stuff when you start sleeping exclusively with one person.

Episode 25: The Fuck Boy Christmas Special

This week we break down the fuck boy-are they born or created? How to spot if the guy you’re dating is a fuck boy (or if you yourself have fuck boy tendencies), and how to treat a fuck boy if you find one in your life. B+L talk about posting on reddit, Big Mouth, and why and how people find themselves in relationships in this Christmas Special!

Episode 24: How to Sex Educate Yourself - Gigi Engle x NYGF

On this week’s episode B+L are joined by a very special guest-sex educator and journalist, Gigi Engle (@gigiengle on Twitter and Instagram). B+L talk sex education, female pleasure, toys, current sex trends (butt play!?), porn, and their mutual love of European men. B+L also answer a listener question and weigh in on how they should move forward.

Episode 13: So You've Been Rejected

We've all been there, and no matter if you've been rejected to your face or via snapchat. In this week's episode B+L enter a lively discourse about soft rejection vs hard rejection, share their best of the worse rejection stories, and when you get rejected next (because it's going to happen) how to get the fuck over in as minimal time as possible so you're rearing and ready for your next heartbreak.

Episode 10: Fuck Girls Anonymous

B+L are reunited and back in New York and attempt to tie up lose ends. Talking about the current dating issues after you've passed the initial first date or two such as, Instagram: to follow or not follow? They break down the seriousness of a DM, the instagram algorithm (there's a rhyme and reason to your top viewers), and when to throw the grenade on dating a guy who may not be that into you. 

Episode 4: What's Wrong With Sex in 2018 (And How You Can Do Right)

Armed with questions from their Focus Group of close friends, B+L dive straight in to answer all the questions you have about casual sex. Starting with the preamble (nudes or nah?), how to make sure you're getting exactly what you want out of sex, if toys and lube are kosher for the first time, and what do you when your magical night (or not so magical night) is over.