B+L welcome Dylan Palladino from We Are All Psychos Podcast on this week’s episode. They discuss dating a sweet spot ‘6’ on the hot scale (00:15:22)
All in Rejection
In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.
On this week’s episode B+L sit down with anonymous M who comes on the podcast to share her experiences in dating and asking men the hard questions, bringing up topics such as if and when they want kids, accepting rejection IRL at a bar, and dating different diversities while being a minority.
As part of our travel series, this week B sits down with special British guest ‘Lily’ who recently moved her life up and moved to Copenhagen.
Our first recurring guest, Anonymous S from Episode 7: So You Think Your Junk Is Brilliant is back to give us a life update. We last left her in a steady long term relationship until recently when her long term partner ended things. We talk about how to process a breakup when you don’t get closure, entering the dating world at 27, and building trust with a next person you date.
B+L are separated by an ocean but that doesn’t stop them from breaking down Valentine’s Day do and don’ts for those in a serious relationship to those in maybe want to get more serious. They also answer two listener questions and give some sage advice on dating older and what happens when you have emotional compatibility without sexual compatibility.
Are you recently seeing someone and found yourself going on less first dates and more second, third and fourth dates? In this episode L discusses her latest bae and her and B give some advice on when to have the exclusive conversation, when to have the boyfriend/girlfriend conversation and why a lot of online dating romances end after the third/fourth date mark. We discuss a recent reddit thread on the subject and discuss what made our last online dating romances end and of course how to explore new bedroom stuff when you start sleeping exclusively with one person.
B shares her first date of 2019 experience where a guy walks out mid-date, and L weighs in on what could have been avoided to make sure our listeners’ dates don’t end the same way. L shares her current positive dating experience. Oh, and there’s a car sex story.
This week we break down the fuck boy-are they born or created? How to spot if the guy you’re dating is a fuck boy (or if you yourself have fuck boy tendencies), and how to treat a fuck boy if you find one in your life. B+L talk about posting on reddit, Big Mouth, and why and how people find themselves in relationships in this Christmas Special!
On this week’s episode B+L are joined by a very special guest-sex educator and journalist, Gigi Engle (@gigiengle on Twitter and Instagram). B+L talk sex education, female pleasure, toys, current sex trends (butt play!?), porn, and their mutual love of European men. B+L also answer a listener question and weigh in on how they should move forward.
This week B + L cover various topics including why they’re forgoing cuffing season, a fun micro-penis story, and talk their thoughts on The Swiped Documentary, about online dating in the modern world.
On this episode B+L go through the ghosts of their past, inspired by Ariana’s new song ‘Thank U Next’. They also revisit cuffing season and give a update on their progress (or lack there of)
B+L Breakdown when to follow someone what social media, weighing pros/cons, when social media is TMI, and most importantly-when to request that insta-follow.
We've all been there, and no matter if you've been rejected to your face or via snapchat. In this week's episode B+L enter a lively discourse about soft rejection vs hard rejection, share their best of the worse rejection stories, and when you get rejected next (because it's going to happen) how to get the fuck over in as minimal time as possible so you're rearing and ready for your next heartbreak.
In this week's episode L interviews anonymous guests T and K who give us the dish on gay dating scene. They break down their coming out stories, favorite dating apps, how to approach the first date, all things grindr.
B+L are reunited and back in New York and attempt to tie up lose ends. Talking about the current dating issues after you've passed the initial first date or two such as, Instagram: to follow or not follow? They break down the seriousness of a DM, the instagram algorithm (there's a rhyme and reason to your top viewers), and when to throw the grenade on dating a guy who may not be that into you.
In this episode B+L talk about the results of the challenge they gave themselves in the last two weeks-which was meeting guys in real life
This week B+L talk about the current problems that they are going through in their dating lives. They also have their first caller in and talk about communication when you just start dating someone new and what is TMI and what is isn't enough.
Armed with questions from their Focus Group of close friends, B+L dive straight in to answer all the questions you have about casual sex. Starting with the preamble (nudes or nah?), how to make sure you're getting exactly what you want out of sex, if toys and lube are kosher for the first time, and what do you when your magical night (or not so magical night) is over.
In this episode anonomyous hosts B+L go into a brief history of themsevles before tackling the big four: Tinder, Hinge, Bumble and Ok Cupid. They share their Best and Worst dates, and offer some advice for anyone going on their first internet date.