B+L welcome Dylan Palladino from We Are All Psychos Podcast on this week’s episode. They discuss dating a sweet spot ‘6’ on the hot scale (00:15:22)
All in Casual Sex
B+L Break down the pros/cons of having a Summer Fling, give New York City Summer date ideas, discuss their Summer Flings of the past, and give advice on getting a Summer Fling (and more importantly how to get rid of them when Winter comes).
In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.
B+L are well rested and back for a FRESH Season 3 Premiere-this episode doesn't disappoint. B shares why fucking a 29 year-old isn’t a guarantee at good sex.
B+L are back together to wrap up the season. We talk L’s next relationships stage and give an update. B is fresh off the boat from her Europe trips gives us the rundown on what happened (and who happened). The episode is filled with dicks that are too big, hot internet date hookups and European flings of the past.
As part of our travel series, this week B sits down with special British guest ‘Lily’ who recently moved her life up and moved to Copenhagen.
Our first recurring guest, Anonymous S from Episode 7: So You Think Your Junk Is Brilliant is back to give us a life update. We last left her in a steady long term relationship until recently when her long term partner ended things. We talk about how to process a breakup when you don’t get closure, entering the dating world at 27, and building trust with a next person you date.
B+L are separated by an ocean but that doesn’t stop them from breaking down Valentine’s Day do and don’ts for those in a serious relationship to those in maybe want to get more serious. They also answer two listener questions and give some sage advice on dating older and what happens when you have emotional compatibility without sexual compatibility.
B+L sit down with co-founders of new dating app in NYC called Bounce. They talk worse dates, rate B’s Bounce profile , and going on date with someone who doesn’t drink. We find out if all guys are really lying about their height, are selfies fair game for your profile and how important someone’s voice plays into their attractiveness.
Are you recently seeing someone and found yourself going on less first dates and more second, third and fourth dates? In this episode L discusses her latest bae and her and B give some advice on when to have the exclusive conversation, when to have the boyfriend/girlfriend conversation and why a lot of online dating romances end after the third/fourth date mark. We discuss a recent reddit thread on the subject and discuss what made our last online dating romances end and of course how to explore new bedroom stuff when you start sleeping exclusively with one person.
On this week’s episode B+L go full Harry Potter with Mike Schubert (@Schubes17) from the Potterless Podcast, where Mike as a 20-something millennial reads Harry Potter for the first time. We discuss our favorite Harry Potter pairings (and least favorite), wizard condoms, the ethics of love potions, and if Snape or Lupin more of a hipster. Potterless Podcast is available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, follow Mike’s journey on Potterless on Twitter (@PotterlessPod) and Instagram (PotterlessPodcast).
This week B+L are joined by John, 29 and Mike, 28 from Collected Layer Podcast (@jckfoundation). In addition to finding the last two good single guys in New York, they break down how and when you should bring up therapy/mental illness in dating, meeting people in real life tips, and the guys share their most interesting dating stories and preferences for the modern 20-something New York male.
B shares her first date of 2019 experience where a guy walks out mid-date, and L weighs in on what could have been avoided to make sure our listeners’ dates don’t end the same way. L shares her current positive dating experience. Oh, and there’s a car sex story.
This week we break down the fuck boy-are they born or created? How to spot if the guy you’re dating is a fuck boy (or if you yourself have fuck boy tendencies), and how to treat a fuck boy if you find one in your life. B+L talk about posting on reddit, Big Mouth, and why and how people find themselves in relationships in this Christmas Special!
On this week’s episode B+L are joined by a very special guest-sex educator and journalist, Gigi Engle (@gigiengle on Twitter and Instagram). B+L talk sex education, female pleasure, toys, current sex trends (butt play!?), porn, and their mutual love of European men. B+L also answer a listener question and weigh in on how they should move forward.
This week B + L cover various topics including why they’re forgoing cuffing season, a fun micro-penis story, and talk their thoughts on The Swiped Documentary, about online dating in the modern world.
This week B+L host two new guests (and current listeners!) on the podcast. New York based R— 24 and single— and J— 25 and in a committed relationship— come on to the pod and answer all of our burning questions about what the hell is going on in the straight male mind. We chat about cheating, what it means to sleep with someone on a first date, splitting the bill and following ex’s on social media… with arguably too much laughter in between.
On this episode B+L go through the ghosts of their past, inspired by Ariana’s new song ‘Thank U Next’. They also revisit cuffing season and give a update on their progress (or lack there of)
Madison and Julianna fellow podcasters of the dating podcast Falling in Luck visit B+L and they discuss their current dating issues with each other, New York happy hours, and some cuffing season (horror) updates
Prompted by a recent ‘Dear Abby’ write-in on whether an Indian couple should give their child an American name, B+L discuss their own ethnicity and their experiences while dating as minorities. They share some cringe-y dating stories and pro-tips to keep mind while dating someone who is a minority.